Sounds like you want tagging preset? Though these listed below are set of config files, not library on its own
https://josm.openstreetmap.de/ has its own preset somewhere
GitHub - osmlab/name-suggestion-index: Canonical common brand names, operators, transit and flags for OpenStreetMap. may or may not be useful
GitHub - westnordost/osmfeatures: A dictionary of OSM map features, accessible by terms and by tags, for Java, iOS and Android. may or may not be of interest and use (this one is actually a library)