Which tag to use for gravestone shops? Should I just type gravestone
as shop type, even though it is not one of the default values?
I have a feeling that this depends heavily on the area you’re mapping in:
In Germany these are sold by stone masons. You’ll be able to by kitchen counter tops and other things made of stone there, too.
I have no clue how other parts of the world handle this
In the UK they are called Monumental Masons. The key service they offer, which will differentiate them from a stonemason is the ability to carve neat fancy lettering.
There are not a huge number of these, burials are no longer common having been replaced by cremations.