Moderator stepping in here. The dispute over whether a bridge exists or doesn’t exist can be settled quite simply, by showing evidence that it exists. If it is under construction it can be shown with the “construction=yes” tag. Planned structures are problematic and before considering mapping them, one should read Verifiability - OpenStreetMap Wiki (Planned features).
If Bvonter23 is in an edit war over a planned bridge that is not under construction, Bvonter23 should take the matter up with the Data Working Group. I am closing this thread because the discussion is unproductive and has begun to appear to relate more to trolling than to mapping actual, mappable objects.