Thank you very much Kovoschiz for this very professional advice. Would you say that with C:S I could, at least, simulate the same traffic jam we are having here in my town? I would really only need it simple. Big points would be “Will the traffic jam change if there will be the new highway?” or “Would traffic get better if there would be a third tram way?” or Extrem “Bike lanes everywhere”.
I´m a scientist by myself and I completly understand you. Quality must always be #1. I want to do that, just to get a feeling.
The problem with SUMO is, that it´s too simple looking. Even if the simulation is perfect I can´t show it to the authorities. It has…no “Pow wow”. It sounds stupid, the people here are very “unscientific”… especially if a “normal” citizen tries to show something. 
Vissum and Vissim are very limited with the Size. Only 1sqkm for the free Versions. 0,025sqkm for the student version. But thank you really for this hint. I was looking for good traffic simulation and somehow PVT didn´t pop up. ~50000€ is also a real good price and shows it´s potential. 
And duplicate: Yeah sure. Simple. Thanks 
Thank you GerdP! Cool.