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I am not entirely certain if I am tagging correctly or not, but I generally use access=private if there is a gate or guard house blocking the way (i.e. you need explicit permission for each entry). And I use access=destination if the roads are privately maintained but there is no gate or guard house so if you are visiting you can just drive to the house.
Remember that access is for the legal access restrictions, it does not imply ownership information. So a privately owned and maintained road could be off limits (access=private), available for use when visiting (access=destination) or able to be used for through traffic (access=yes). This also applies to some roads that are publicly owned and maintained as sometimes they restrict access as shown by posted signs (e.g. “No thru traffic”).
That might make a difference in how you tag the roads in this situation.
But as mentioned by Viajero Perdido, it can take some time for changes to make it from the main OSM database to the various routing services. So even if you’ve got things tagged as the routing service expects you may not see the result for a while. One hopes for a few hours but several days or even a couple of weeks is not unheard of.