Dang that’s unfortunate. As it turns out, only the last segment of “Stiles pond road” is not marked private, so it seems to have happily routed through private roads, but maybe the last portion being “public” negates that.
I also read on the associatedStreet page that it can potentially help routing engines, so I added the last segment of driveway next to the building to a relation which I think is reasonable (since it’s the “street” that the building is actually attached to).
Is there any potential workaround if that doesn’t end up working? I feel like this is exactly the kind of case where OSM can shine - google/apple maps is horribly incorrect and we have to rely on old fashioned written down step by step directions from our host to get there.
Btw I just used the default Car OSRM selection when getting openstreetmaps directions.