First of all, I want to note how DELIGHTED I am to be afforded the opportunity to comment on this thread before it gets locked. “DWG is out to get me” threads are one of my favorite OSM topics.
I also want to point out that I am as yet unable to use the 
emoji to react to the OP and therefore I will offer my thoughts in long form.
It seems that we are being asked (if you’ll permit me to devilishly use the passive voice) to determine which of these assertions are true:
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@SomeoneElse and @woodpeck have gone rogue and are part of a grand conspiracy theory to facilitate vandalism despite the valiant attempts of @SHARCRASH to combat it.
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@SHARCRASH is the latest in a list of active contributors that nonetheless find themselves suffering with extreme difficulty in getting along with other comunity members.
Just for clarity’s sake, I want to note that I too have objections to the way @SomeoneElse and @woodpeck handle cases where community members find themselves in conflict with others. My objection is that they are far, far too lenient and accomodating. I have unceremoniously tossed people out of the OSM World Discord server for far flimsier rationale.
Having read through this thread, there is really only one obvious conclusion. This project isn’t a good fit for you, and that’s okay.