Can you clarify whether you are referring to the map as it appears in other services such as Snapmap, or also to the map displayed at openstreetmap.org?

Can you give an example of a feature you have added that does not appear as you expect, and maybe a similar older feature that does appear?

Note that there isn’t really a concept of “offically publish” in OSM. As soon as you save an edit it is part of the live data so you can consider it “published”. From that point it is up to the many different renderers to update their tiles. And there is no guarantee that any particular feature will render - there is far more data than any one map csn display. Again, if you link to a specific object you have edited, we may be able to tell if you simply need to wait or if there is some other reason it does not appear.