SomeoneElse
(Andy Townsend)
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In addition to the switch2osm guide (which is more about setting up a server than designing a style) have a look at https://ircama.github.io/osm-carto-tutorials/ and https://github.com/gravitystorm/openstreetmap-carto/blob/master/DOCKER.md .
One thing that you will need to do is to decide whether you want to start from scratch or modify an existing style. It’s probably easiest to modify an existing one, and OSM’s “standard” style may not be the best place to start from as it’s quite complicated.
I’m not aware of a worked example for editing a particular style to achieve the effect that you want, but briefly, “carto” styles have a number of layers defined in a project.mml file and if you remove layers from that they’ll disappear from the rendered map.