Welcome elywedding!

I can’t pretend to be at all technical to answer your questions - but just to check that you are aware of the gazillions of channels in OSM, and sources of documentation?

https://wiki.openstreetmap.org/wiki/Contact_channels

To my totally inexpert ears, it sounds like wiki.openstreetmap.org may have the answers you’re looking for. But you may have checked already, and I’m sure more knowledgable people will be responding soon.