Hi,

If you draw something in one projection (in your case epsg:4326) and show it in another (epsg:900913) the drawing will be reprojected and it does not visually look the same. Due to the nature of 4326 projection objects which are right-angled in the nature do look distorted on an orthophoto in northern and southern parts of the world. If you are working by placing rectangular boxes to present buildings instead of tracing them visually from an image, use Merkator (Google projection, or epsg:900913, or epsg:3857) in JOSM because it is the same projection that is used in OSM slippy maps. Make a test by downloading some building outlines which look good to you on a slippy map and show them in epsg:4326 in JOSM. They will look distorted but it is not an error.