The suggestion that you tried to discuss it is laughable at best. All you did was leave a message on my talk page telling me what to do and then continued reverting me while ignoring the multiple messages I wrote saying I was willing to meet you halfway and not remove certain ones as long as there was some kind of standard for when it was OK or not. You just dodged out the second I didn’t just acquiesce and gave you mild pushback. That’s not discussing things.

That’s my thinking. Another thing is that existence of the whole “possible synonyms” section of articles in the first place encourages people to add tags that are used in extremely minor edge cases, but have no possibility of being outside of that by the wider community. For instance one of the possible synonyms that I removed and @dieterdreist reverted was from a single editor who an un-discussed mass edit in 2018 and then the tag wasn’t ever used outside of that by the wider community. You could maybe argue that it would be worth documenting in an article somewhere, but I don’t think such a case would need to permanently be mentioned in a “possible synonyms” section of the de-facto tags article once it’s gone down to zero.

There’s also a lot one off miss-spellings that were done by a single user and therefore aren’t worth having in a “possible synonyms” section of an article either. Not because they don’t currently have usage or haven’t been used if the usage is now zero, but because they aren’t “possible synonyms” of the tag. So there should be a line somewhere. IMO that line should be at a certain amount of sustained usage over a specific period of time by multiple users. Not just one off mass-edits that have zero chance of ever happening again or some rando accidently hitting the wrong key on their keyboard a few times.